wedding magazines
for those of you who are also planning to get married, should start looking at wedding magazines and/or websites to get ideas on when you want to have your wedding, where to have it, how to go about doing it. trust me… don’t try leaving everything till the very last minute.
and as many ideas that you get from these resources, please don’t try to mix and match everything… think of your theme, colour and design. also, think of how you want your wedding to be. yes, other people’s opinions matter. do listen… but only follow if you think it suits you. and try to say “no” tactfully. after all, it’s your wedding you’re planning….
when people offer their assistance, do try to find ways to allow them to help… this is also known as delegation. but, give them areas that will help them shine and feel important… not in lowly places. this will also allow people to feel that they’re part of your wedding and be merry. but, it really all boils down to people management. however, i’m glad to have friends like joanne, janie, jacey, pr. joshua tan and my uncle kok wing to offer their assistance and kindness for my wedding…. God has truly blessed us with wonderful persons. thank you…